Jalne ne wale chahe jal jal mare
जलने वाले चाहे जल जल मरे
The line above means, let the envious people die envying. This is in context of marriage. Marriage nowadays is more like licensed sexuality with the assurance of getting financial package on the conclusion of the contract.
We are shaped more by experiences than what we are. If we look at the film stars it is very clear that people are shaped More by experiences that what they actually are.
Strained relationships to multiple marriages, what we see these days. They learn from others but the choices they make are basically from their own experiences.
Suddenly, sitting straight on the bed, with eyes semi open and a serious gaze at me, who is sitting on the floor and solving a statistical problem, “learn something, Amir Khan is marrying again and his wives have no problem”.
I scowled at him and he soared to a different level in a few seconds. Scratching his back, he said, “I mean, rich people can do anything.”
I said, “Say, whatever suits you, you are not Amir Khan”. He added, “Amir Khan has a wide choice. In fact, if he wants he can marry the daughters belonging to the rich Saudi or Emirati families.”
I added shifting my specks on my sweating nose, “Yes rich are rich. However, he has eye sight issue. He is good to look at but none of his wives are worth looking at.” Sigh!