Not Having Children
For many women not having children is an inadequacy. It is children which give stability to their relationship. I heard a woman who was explaining to her husband that having children is an investment. But in reality, if you don’t bring up your children with proper responsibility, it could be a bad investment.
Many working women have expressed their dissatisfaction with their children. In many cases children are the source of cementing the relationship expecting a child is likely to keep the father bound towards the mother. So women are quite desperate to have children. For me, I try to choose what is good for my health and situation. Now, to reach this position you require experience to handle the situation.
Most often, we are driven by thoughts imposed upon us from the people around. People have often chosen motherhood at an age when it is impossible but by the virtues of science, motherhood is possible but that comes at a heavy price – ill health.
The kinds of assisted therapy a woman may need for childbirth is quite risky. Women make immense investments in marriage, relationship and children thinking everything is permanent. Though children are sold as a source of joy, children may not turn out to be so. They can be a source of immense misery for parents too.
After several miscarriages, a woman tried for ivf coupled with prayers which left her with miscarriage and severe weakness. She is not able to go back to the office now.
The moral of the story is women try to fit themselves in a place where they don’t fit in and bring upon themselves additional negativity and bad health.
Jagoran 